The Third Place: Places that Create Community

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Retail Radio, Third Place, creating community podcast

The Third Place (pt 1)

Places that Create Community

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In “The Third Place: The Places that Create Community,” we delve into the essence of communal spaces beyond work and home, crucial for social interaction and community building. Highlighted by Elliott Cook and Ryder Richards, the podcast explores Ray Oldenburg‘s concept, emphasizing its growing importance in today’s society, especially post-pandemic.

It addresses the vital role these spaces play in fostering connections, breaking down socio-economic barriers, and enhancing civic engagement. Through discussions on the challenges and benefits of third places, the episode sheds light on the necessity of nurturing such environments for societal well-being and the potential ways to revitalize these essential community hubs.

The Third Place

The third place concept and its importance in society

The “third place” refers to vital gathering spaces outside of home and work where people can socialize, build connections, and cultivate a sense of community belonging. As defined by Ray Oldenburg in the late 1980s, these third places like coffee shops, pubs, and community centers provide a public sphere for relaxation and socializing. They offer a reprieve from the defined roles and responsibilities of the first two “places” – home life and work life. In these neutral, inclusive third places, people have the freedom to “flex their identity” and engage in the type of philosophical discourse and casual idea exchange that drives cultural growth and understanding across socioeconomic divides.

The importance of community gathering places for social connection and personal growth

While the internet and social media have increased virtual connectivity, they have paradoxically left many feeling more isolated and disconnected from their local communities than ever before. The decline of third places has contributed to rising loneliness, lack of civic engagement, and erosion of the cross-pollination of ideas that characterizes a vibrant society. However, third places like breweries, parks, and houses of worship provide that coveted neutral ground where people from diverse backgrounds can gather regularly to engage in positive discourse. These spaces break down socioeconomic barriers and foster the types of relationships that lead to greater personal happiness and wellbeing, according to longitudinal studies. By interacting with different perspectives, third places allow for personal growth and community-building.

The importance of third places for social connection

The importance of third places for social connection

A strong sense of community connection and shared effort has long been identified as a quintessential part of the American experience and democratic society. Thinkers like Alexis de Tocqueville recognized the experiment of citizens actively congregating and problem-solving together. However, this civic discourse has declined in recent decades as third-place gathering spaces have faded. Oldenburg’s work highlights how third places must be neutral, inclusive spaces that are conducive to interesting conversation and relationship-building across divides. By re-establishing these communal “common grounds” like student unions, coffee shops, and recreational facilities, communities can begin bridging the political, socioeconomic, and ideological gaps that prevent mutual understanding.

The importance of third places for community and belonging

The importance of third places for community and belonging

At their core, third places provide a profound sense of community belonging that became even more apparent during the isolation of the COVID-19 pandemic. When public parks, grocery stores, churches and other third places were temporarily inaccessible, people deeply felt that loss of connection and “neutral ground” to develop relationships outside of work and family obligations. Repeated encounters with the same people in third-place settings like book clubs or daily walks create a sense of grounding, rootedness, and feeling at home in one’s broader community. By simply showing up and engaging in shared activities, people can experience low-stakes social bonding across demographics.

Third places, civic engagement, and connection in modern society

While virtual spaces have emerged to help facilitate connection, particularly for disabled individuals, there is an inherent limitation in their ability to replicate the energizing effects of physical third places. Studies show younger generations have experienced an “epidemic” of isolation, depression and anxiety due to lack of in-person communication. Third places provide a sense of safety, neutrality and low social stakes that allows for open discourse and civic engagement. Cities must identify or create activated public spaces like parks, coffee shops and breweries where all residents can gather, connect with their community, and work through differences in thinking. Maintaining third places is an investment in the long-term social vibrancy and health of the community.

Third places, civic engagement, and connection in modern society

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Elliott Cook

Elliott Cook
Director of Real Estate

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Ryder Richards

Ryder Richards
Creative Director

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